I had the most riveting conversation. To summarize her sister had a heart condition, she had made a wish to reach out to her three times! Each time thinking the end was near. She always wanted to feel like a normal girl. Fast forward she marries some hot sociopath who continually cheated on her. Three kids, house the whole package. She would always try to hunt him down and find him. Never with any intention of divorce or any plan. Just to catch him. She would tell her sister. Why does he get to go and have these fun sex moments, while I'm stuck with the kids? He should be miserable too. What an honest conversation, truly. Back to the story. So one night like most of their marriage, he was off galavanting. He tells her he is at the bar, she calls the bar. They say he isn't there. She stays up till two. Calling her sister sobbing. Two hours later the husband calls the sister. Says they are at the hospital, and that something happened with the sister. When he came home, she was asleep in their bed but breathing weird, and that's when he called 911. The sister knew better. No way in hell would she be sleeping while waiting up for her philandering husband. The sister also had a uncounted for black eye. Which he claims the paramedic did to her. The husband also said they should pull the plug on her asap. She's in a coma at this point. Eventually she awakes. Her brain had no oxygen for ten minutes, the reports show. When they ask her what happens, she gives the same story , but with different details each time. That he attacked her. One is he shoved her off a cliff. Which is impossible because she was found in her room. Another one was he drove her over with his car. Again impossible. Another one, another one! Each has the same emotions attached. She doesn't remember the events, but she only remembered the feeling and attached different verbs to it. She also does not remember events with people, but she remembers how she feels about them. Fascinating. They say you don't remember what people say, but you remember how they made you feel. This proves that. That emotions are deeper than events. 


The woman now tells me that he smokes crack and has fallen apart. So even though he has basically gotten away with murder, he still doesn't have a happy ending. Just him being a shitty person has deteriorated his life. 


This might be hashing out details that don't matter, but even if he didnt attack her. HIs day to day response to her was attacking. He didn't care about her feelings. He didn't care how she felt. He didn't care about their children. He didn't care that she had an underlying heart condition that meant she was extra fragile. He didn't care about her. He didn't care for them to try and bring her back to life from her coma. It's all the same font with different words! Just her recollection of what happened that night.


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