Big Balls are Always In

Unbothered. Effortless. The two compliments that rein above all else. Most people are focused on themselves. The secret to avoiding awkwardness is to stop obsessing about yourself. Turn your focus to whoever is across from you. Ask genuine questions. If they are talking, don't think about the next thing to say. Respond organically with whatever pops into your brilliant mind. If they take it the wrong way, then that's on them. You're an unbothered bitch! The Carolyn Bessette-Kennedy reincarnated. 

I mean really think about it. The last time you clammed up, it was because you were very aware of how you were being perceived. That's why I love weed. It just removes that part of your brain. So many times i'll be rude and frank with people, but the catch is i don't give a fuck. I don't say anything with malice. Just whatever is on my mind.  And guess what! People love it! They call you charming! They tell you, you're refreshingly real. 

Gay men have perfected this. Say whatever is in your mind. Don't even flinch. A gay man can pick apart your outfit. And you can't help but just laugh. 

People are drawn to this kind of strength. They feed off of it. So give it to them! Show them that you've got the biggest balls.